Category - Life

How do we kill the fear ?

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What if we keep missing on all those dreams because of fear? Is it actually fear of failure, or fear of change, or is it actually a fear of not finding what you thought to be there? What about the fear of missing the opportunity or the fear of realizing that an opportunity was not even there and only existed in your imagination? Is it a leap of faith that a person takes, or is it a deliberate process of evaluating the pros and cons follow by a leap of faith.

The grass is not always greener on the other side, but if you ask me the emphasis here is on “always”. I think we need to realize the possibilities exist in all scenarios, but no matter what it is a tradeoff. The have it all scenario does not exist in real life.

But will the world really change ? ..

With everybody settling into extended weeks of quarantine , thoughts about a world post Covid-19 continue to evolve , with thoughts ranging from new learning experiences , a re-structured payment hierarchy that rewards jobs we realized we need most to people even juggling thoughts about the end of capitalism as we know it today.

I tried to gather my thoughts about this unprecedented time, after all it’s a time unlike any we have lived before nor will we god willing ever live this again.

To start with there is no other that the topic dearest to my heart Tech.

  1. Technology: Time and again technology has come to our rescue enabling millions of people around the globe to continue learning, communicating and working. Jobs, meetings and tasks in industries that were for long deemed undoable down the wire turned out to work just fine. Looking at the cost that could have been avoided over the last 10 years at least if the same means which have been available for that period of time had been leveraged in the same manner and the impact this would have had on profitability, environment and well-being of people.

So, what’s next in that space, more of predictions because everybody does that don’t, they:

  • E-learning will definitely come out as a big winner, and I mean it here in the context of e-learning only and first not just for post graduate studies but all the way down to schools, e-learning only schools are a must ,I can almost see this happen in the next few months .
  • Remote first work ethic, organizations specially in industries outside the tech space will embark on journeys to explore how tech can help them improve their bottom line, after all it worked during a time of crisis, so why not during normal times. Additionally, I do not feel we have realized the full potential of technology in that space beyond the ability to communicate, the need to extend to the ability to execute will drive a lot of change in that space.
  • E-commerce, not that it needed any further boost than it did, but brick and mortar trading I think has taken the final knockout blow with Covid-19. Entire investment plans will be re-visited.
  • Health Care tech, for the lack of a better word, for years Fintech has been the hot topic, no more, I think. VC’s, investors and corporates will embark on a journey of cash splashing on everything health care related that enables faster access to health care, better and speedier testing, old school vaccine development will get an overhaul, at the same time.

 

  1. Capitalism ..think again. A lot of the thoughts I am reading around the demise of capitalism for me do not even qualify for wishful thinking. I am convinced that if it wasn’t for the overtake of capitalism in the past 40 years or so, none of what we have today could have been possible. All the tools at hand that we are using to fight Covid-19, or enable our lives to continue during this time would not have been possible if it wasn’t for capitalism.

Yet the argument about how the system has suppressed the most needing, crippled people and nations with debt is strong and valid. However not strong enough to compel a full system breakdown. I think changes in that space can be summarized in the following:

  • Regulation: Governments will become a bit more heavy handed in regulation of industries they have continuously overlooked, specifically in light of Covod-19 and the realization that free market does not always step up to expectations at times of crisis, healthcare, insurance, consumables are targets
  • Earnings: Triggered mainly by the realization that people who we most need to live deserve a lot more pay than people who entertain us, although astonishing that it took a global pandemic to reach that realization. Yet I fear the euphoria of this will be short lived if not capitalized on quickly
  • Immigration: The shortage of skills or rather the imbalance of it will trigger a new wave of immigration, although I believe it will be a much focused and organized one.

 

  1. Society …or people in general, their emotions, habits and thoughts about their lifestyle and its sustainability will jump high into people’s minds. I do not think within my generation at least that a threat to life its continuity and our abilities to sustain it have ever been tested, a few thoughts there would be:
  • Savings: As soon as the dust settles, the need for new safe nets would emerge, safe nets that do not involve stocks or bond, but more innovative accessible to the masses investment forms to enable people to sustain life at times like this.
  • Healthcare: It would no longer be a need, the big winners out of this will be insurance companies who will be able to develop new more economical models that enables a wide spectrum of people to access healthcare in a more affordable manner
  • Education: Newer generations on the doorsteps of undergraduate studies would rethink their prospects, all lists that currently exist of the jobs needed for the future would be revisited.

 

Ironically the society and human aspects of the post Covid-19 world will be the most challenging, for the simple reason that we tend to forget. Getting the masses to adhere to new principles and way of life has been a challenge at the time of the crisis itself through all the resistance seen worldwide to the simple directive of staying at home, so embarking on a full lifestyle change post the Covid-19 era will be even more challenging.

 

A vow to Transform…. not a New Year’s Resolution

2015 marked an important year for me, it was the year of the 10’s as I called it…on November 2015 was my 10th wedding anniversary, and in March 2015 was the completion of the 10th year of my career…to sum up my feeling I can not be more content with what I accomplished on the personal and professional front in those 10 years. Been an absolute blessing…

Through out 2015 I was always on the search of what the next decade would be about, what will I stand for, what will I aim to achieve, accomplish or even create? Just the thought of the next 10 years being like the previous 10 is in itself discouraging…all of sudden sometime in October everything started to fall in place with a rush of thoughts and wishes.

First move came on the 1st of November, decided it was time I delivered to myself, my health and my family something that I have for a long time wished for, being fit. Dropped the cigarettes smoking and dragged my legs into a neat new gym close to where I live, and the first thing that struck me there was their slogan “ This is where we belong”…it was different, never thought a gym would be a place I would belong too, so was really curious to know more, is it just a slogan or something that they deliver on. Not a big fan of weight lifting machines nor the dreaded treadmill, I signed up for CrossFit classes and oh boy did I do the right doing that. Two months have passed since then and one of the most magnificent and enlightening experiences of my life. Not just from a fitness point of view, but from a whole experience, revelation and inner change of human soul.

I found myself actually belonging, actually looking forward to it , it hurt too much , but I have learned to love the pain and enjoy it . The feeling of accomplishment after every work out , was enough fuel to get me to progress much more in all other parts of my life unlike ever before. Its then that I realised what the next 10 years are going to be about, they are going to be about my WILL to do things and accomplish long parked goals and objectives that span from family to silliest of things like my long lasting wish to learn to play the piano. So be it, a new year is coming 2016, and I will not list my new year resolutions for the first time in my life , but I will list my promises to transform and get on doing things I have ignored for a long time , so here goes some of what I would do :

  • Continue with my fitness transformation along the CrossFit track and not just that, a journey in cycling is about to begin. More on my cycling challenge to self soon…
  • Bring to light something I am very passionate about, working in corporates! How is that I actually wrote a book J …Very very soon I will publish it online. Here you go a life long dream about to come true. Will share the details very very soon
  • Increase the time I spend with my family, each member of them but not just in quantity but in what they like spending time on, not what I like spending time on.
  • I have found my passion for technology at a new intersection between human life and the internet, or what is called IoT ( Internet of things) . I will learn, learn and learn, till I can influence, create and advance that domain.

Finally, I have also decided to challenge myself to share more about the transformation journey aiming to inspire if at all possible..